stash-debug: teach upgrade check about replica sizes

[maddyblue]

This is required to actually use this on a production database.

Motivation

• This PR adds a feature that has not yet been specified.

Checklist

• This PR has adequate test coverage / QA involvement has been duly considered.
• This PR has an associated up-to-date design doc, is a design doc (template), or is sufficiently small to not require a design.
• This PR evolves an existing $T ⇔ Proto$T mapping (possibly in a backwards-incompatible way) and therefore is tagged with a T-proto label.
• If this PR will require changes to cloud orchestration, there is a companion cloud PR to account for those changes that is tagged with the release-blocker label (example).
• This PR includes the following user-facing behavior changes:
  • n/a