Allow passing update options with caches

[Floriferous]

This PR makes it possible to fine-tune the collection updates made by denormalize.

In our case, we use the option getAutoValues: false and valide: false, to avoid having caches trigger our simple schema autovalues.

The main one being our updatedAt dates, because of this package they never really meant anything, because writing on another collection, would trigger a cache in the concerned collection and update its updatedAt field.

Care should be taken if you need the cache in one of your autoValues, our internal policy is that we should never create such an autoValue :)

[lgtm-com]

This pull request introduces 1 alert when merging 9e3c819 into d3fc1c0 - view on LGTM.com

new alerts:

• 1 for Unused variable, import, function or class

[StorytellerCZ]

@Floriferous could you please update with latest and take a look on the issue raised by LGTM?