Refactor parameter query settings into its own class

[technicalpickles]

@nateberkopec mentioned in passing how big the call method is. This is just my attempt to reduce it a little 😁

[technicalpickles]

This PR kinda got away from me 😁 It ended up being more about abstracting what settings are being passed in via query parameters than the skip logic.

I made a QuerySettings which encapsulates the logic. I think this has nice parity with ClientSettings, because we have places that end up like query_settings.something || query_settings.something which feels nice.

As I was going through this, I saw that there are a bunch of places doing =~ to check matches, but not using the results. I changed those to match? to avoid allocating match data.

[nateberkopec]

This is a big improvement for readability. 👍

[technicalpickles]

Have some merge conflicts to sort out in the wake of #593

[SamSaffron]

I like this change a lot but yeah we need a rebase here.