[Trainer] add dp_group and exclude_layer params

[JunnYu]

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• <=2.4.1的paddle不支持dp_group 和 exclude_layer 参数
• develop paddle新增 dp_group 和 exclude_layer 参数，其中 exclude_layer 设置 GroupNorm
• GroupNorm与框架的PyLayer结合，就会出现下面的BUG，该BUG还没修复。
  

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Codecov Report

Merging #4930 (0c3e9d5) into develop (9a00c15) will decrease coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is 12.50%.

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- Coverage    46.34%   46.34%   -0.01%     
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  Files          448      448              
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+ Hits         29961    29963       +2     
- Misses       34685    34689       +4     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
paddlenlp/trainer/trainer.py	59.56% <12.50%> (-0.28%)	⬇️
paddlenlp/utils/downloader.py	65.04% <0.00%> (+0.44%)	⬆️

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