Remove -Werror from autotools darwin build

[dechamps]

Warnings should not be turned into errors by default as that can cause difficulties for people who just want to build PortAudio, not work on it. Also this is inconsistent with other platforms.

This PR is a spin-off of #780.

[dechamps]

@RossBencina from #780

I thought we'd already made a decision on this, but I don't remember what it was.

You may be referring to the discussion on #636?

[RossBencina]

I checked #636, here are the pertinent comments from there:

r-burns #636 (comment) wrote:

Werror is good to enable for development, but unless your CI checks every possible compiler out there, warnings can always sneak by. For example, Nixpkgs ran into some new warnings with gcc 10. I think the recommended approach is to keep Werror off by default, and enable it on the CI using CPPFLAGS.

@philburk #636 (comment) wrote:

I am in favor of merging this after we add -Werror to the CI.

And later in the thread #636 (comment) :

Ross and I discussed this and we are both OK with removing -Werror from configure and cmake.
So we need to have the -Werror in the CI builds.

@RossBencina #636 (comment) wrote:

I think this is heading in the right direction. It's OK to limit -Werror to CI.

And later in the thread #636 (comment) :

The CI builds should use -Werror for both debug and release builds.

[RossBencina]

So from #636 we already agreed to removing -Werror from our distributed build files, but we want to retain it in CI.

I've created a PR with options for adding it back to autotools CI:
#803

We should discuss the approach on that PR.

[RossBencina]

OK, but let's fix CI too. See #803 for that.