Reduce noise from reno lint (#11734) (#11737)

This applies the "quiet" option to `reno` during lint runs, so it only
prints out failures from the lint, not the general messages about what
it's up to.  The dev version of reno is bumped to include the commit
that removes the hard-printed "unable to find ..." non-error note, since
we're still waiting for a reno 4.1 release.

(cherry picked from commit 3062293)

Co-authored-by: Jake Lishman <jake.lishman@ibm.com>

requirements-dev.txt

@@ -39,5 +39,5 @@ ddt>=1.2.0,!=1.4.0,!=1.4.3
 # consume it properly.
 Sphinx>=6.0,<7.2
 # TODO: switch to stable release when 4.1 is released
-reno @ git+https://github.com/openstack/reno.git@81587f616f17904336cdc431e25c42b46cd75b8f
+reno @ git+https://github.com/openstack/reno.git@85b9a9bb52c8f9ce4a5e66fa8d9eba7fde90bf6d
 sphinxcontrib-katex==0.9.9

tox.ini

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ commands =
   python {toxinidir}/tools/verify_headers.py qiskit test tools examples
   python {toxinidir}/tools/find_optional_imports.py
   python {toxinidir}/tools/find_stray_release_notes.py
-  reno lint
+  reno -q lint
 
 [testenv:lint-incr]
 basepython = python3
@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ commands =
   python {toxinidir}/tools/verify_headers.py qiskit test tools examples
   python {toxinidir}/tools/find_optional_imports.py
   python {toxinidir}/tools/find_stray_release_notes.py
-  reno lint
+  reno -q lint
 
 [testenv:black]
 skip_install = true