[BugFix] Fix the mem_tracker use-after-free of UDF (#41710)

## Why I'm doing:

```
*** Aborted at 1686120661 (unix time) try "date -d @1686120661" if you are using GNU date ***
PC: @          0x2ce0b61 starrocks::MemTracker::consume()
*** SIGSEGV (@0x0) received by PID 117789 (TID 0x7f9cd0728700) from PID 0; stack trace: ***
    @          0x58f9dc2 google::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler()
    @     0x7f9d147ae362 (unknown)
    @     0x7f9d147b28b9 JVM_handle_linux_signal
    @     0x7f9d147a5f78 (unknown)
    @     0x7f9d13ce1390 (unknown)
    @          0x2ce0b61 starrocks::MemTracker::consume()
    @          0x486d328 _ZNSt17_Function_handlerIFvvEZN9starrocks24call_function_in_pthreadEPNS1_12RuntimeStateERKSt8functionIFNS1_6StatusEvEEEUlvE_E9_M_invokeERKSt9_Any_data
    @          0x475fbe0 starrocks::PriorityThreadPool::work_thread()
    @          0x58b97e7 thread_proxy
    @     0x7f9d13cd76ba start_thread
    @     0x7f9d132f841d clone
    @                0x0 (unknown)
```

After `promise->set_value`, if runtime state of query is first destructed, then release the memory, the mem_tracker has already been free, so it will be crash here.

## What I'm doing:

Release the mem first, and then set promise value.
Signed-off-by: trueeyu <lxhhust350@qq.com>
(cherry picked from commit e36a684)

be/src/udf/java/utils.cpp

@@ -31,10 +31,14 @@ PromiseStatusPtr call_function_in_pthread(RuntimeState* state, const std::functi
     PromiseStatusPtr ms = std::make_unique<PromiseStatus>();
     if (bthread_self()) {
         state->exec_env()->udf_call_pool()->offer([promise = ms.get(), state, func]() {
-            MemTracker* prev_tracker = tls_thread_status.set_mem_tracker(state->instance_mem_tracker());
-            SCOPED_SET_TRACE_INFO({}, state->query_id(), state->fragment_instance_id());
-            DeferOp op([&] { tls_thread_status.set_mem_tracker(prev_tracker); });
-            promise->set_value(func());
+            Status st;
+            {
+                MemTracker* prev_tracker = tls_thread_status.set_mem_tracker(state->instance_mem_tracker());
+                SCOPED_SET_TRACE_INFO({}, state->query_id(), state->fragment_instance_id());
+                DeferOp op([&] { tls_thread_status.set_mem_tracker(prev_tracker); });
+                st = func();
+            }
+            promise->set_value(st);
         });
     } else {
         ms->set_value(func());