Escape strings used in query selectors

[reidbarber]

Escapes our strings used in query selectors. Keys may be strings that are invalid as selectors, so we want to avoid errors like: "Failed to execute 'querySelector' on 'Element': '[data-key="Apple""]' is not a valid selector."

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

Smoke test affected components.

🧢 Your Project:

[snowystinger]

Looks good.

At some point we should really write a test which can fuzz the inputs. We could use the same fast check which we used for NumberField. https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/blob/main/packages/%40internationalized/number/test/NumberParser.test.js#L168 and instead of round trips, we could just check for a couple basic interactions such as keyboard navigate and select.