feat: refactor useNotification

[zombieJ]

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Language	Changelog
🇺🇸 English	Refactor notification & message on more react way. And static function now only has one instance.
🇨🇳 Chinese	重构 notification 与 message 至 React 生命周期一致。静态方法现在只会存在一个实例。

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Size Change: +4.14 kB (0%)

Total Size: 901 kB

Filename	Size	Change
./dist/antd-with-locales.min.js	457 kB	+3.26 kB (+1%)
./dist/antd.compact.min.css	10.2 kB	-493 B (-5%)	✅
./dist/antd.dark.min.css	10.7 kB	-480 B (-4%)
./dist/antd.min.css	10.3 kB	-485 B (-5%)	✅
./dist/antd.min.js	403 kB	+2.83 kB (+1%)
./dist/antd.variable.min.css	10.7 kB	-496 B (-4%)

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