add tri native image support

[FoghostCn]

What is the purpose of the change

fix #12535
add tri native image support

every netty channelHandler should have a reflect-config conf in native image build
as netty does netty/netty#12794, netty/netty#12738
otherwise will cause io.netty.channel.ChannelHandlerMask#isSkippable check failed

https://github.com/netty/netty/blob/4.1/transport/src/main/java/io/netty/channel/ChannelHandlerMask.java#L177

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[CrazyHZM]

Why change this member category?

[FoghostCn]

cause to method https://github.com/netty/netty/blob/4.1/transport/src/main/java/io/netty/channel/ChannelHandlerMask.java#L167 public is enough and reflect config for ChannelHandler in netty project is also public, for example:

  {
    "name": "io.netty.channel.ChannelDuplexHandler",
    "condition": {
      "typeReachable": "io.netty.channel.ChannelDuplexHandler"
    },
    "queryAllPublicMethods": true
  }