[FLINK-32052][table-runtime] Introduce left and right state retention time to StreamingJoinOperator

[LadyForest]

What is the purpose of the change

This is the second subtask for FLIP-292.

Brief change log

This PR introduces leftStateRetentionTime and rightStateRetentionTime to StreamingJoinOperator and StreamingSemiAntiJoinOperator.

Verifying this change

This change added tests and can be verified as follows:

Add StreamingJoinOperatorTest and StreamingSemiAntiJoinOperatorTest to verify the different state TTL for join operators work as expected.

Does this pull request potentially affect one of the following parts:

• Dependencies (does it add or upgrade a dependency): no
• The public API, i.e., is any changed class annotated with @Public(Evolving): no
• The serializers: no
• The runtime per-record code paths (performance sensitive): no
• Anything that affects deployment or recovery: JobManager (and its components), Checkpointing, Kubernetes/Yarn, ZooKeeper: no
• The S3 file system connector: no

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduces a new feature? yes
• If yes, how is the feature documented? FLINK-31957

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CI report:

• 043f32d Azure: SUCCESS

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[LadyForest]

The first failure is not relevant to this change. Well, I've rebased the master n force push to reinvoke CI...

[LadyForest]

Hi @lincoln-lil and @godfreyhe, would you mind sparing some time to review it?

[godfreyhe]

LGTM over all