HBASE-28017: set request and response sizes in NettyRpcDuplexHandler

[rmdmattingly]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HBASE-28017

These new calls have equivalents in BlockingRpcConnection's read/write methods. This will ensure that request/response size metrics are available to those using the netty client.

cc @bbeaudreault @hgromer @eab148 @bozzkar

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