[VL] Fix assertion failures when mixing use of partial aggregation spilling and flushing

[zhztheplayer]

Depends on oap-project/velox#453

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[zhztheplayer]

/Benchmark Velox

[GlutenPerfBot]

===== Performance report for TPCH SF2000 with Velox backend, for reference only ====

query	log/native_3872_time.csv	log/native_master_11_28_2023_e0f197fc2_time.csv	difference	percentage
q1	33.95	33.03	-0.921	97.29%
q2	23.26	24.97	1.709	107.35%
q3	37.85	37.84	-0.018	99.95%
q4	37.80	38.37	0.571	101.51%
q5	72.42	71.84	-0.580	99.20%
q6	7.06	7.08	0.016	100.23%
q7	85.66	83.42	-2.246	97.38%
q8	89.28	86.34	-2.932	96.72%
q9	124.02	124.39	0.370	100.30%
q10	45.70	45.34	-0.361	99.21%
q11	20.28	20.27	-0.001	99.99%
q12	27.14	26.06	-1.086	96.00%
q13	47.73	47.23	-0.497	98.96%
q14	14.28	13.83	-0.447	96.87%
q15	27.84	29.53	1.687	106.06%
q16	15.31	15.40	0.087	100.57%
q17	103.04	102.38	-0.669	99.35%
q18	147.96	150.59	2.627	101.78%
q19	12.86	13.04	0.187	101.46%
q20	30.10	27.68	-2.424	91.95%
q21	226.81	223.37	-3.444	98.48%
q22	13.05	14.21	1.160	108.89%
total	1243.42	1236.20	-7.214	99.42%

[JkSelf]

LGTM. Thanks.

[GlutenPerfBot]

===== Performance report for TPCH SF2000 with Velox backend, for reference only ====

query	log/native_3872_time.csv	log/native_master_11_28_2023_e0f197fc2_time.csv	difference	percentage
q1	33.62	33.03	-0.590	98.25%
q2	25.12	24.97	-0.153	99.39%
q3	37.96	37.84	-0.127	99.67%
q4	37.76	38.37	0.604	101.60%
q5	71.60	71.84	0.246	100.34%
q6	5.38	7.08	1.700	131.61%
q7	83.55	83.42	-0.136	99.84%
q8	86.43	86.34	-0.091	99.89%
q9	126.54	124.39	-2.143	98.31%
q10	45.83	45.34	-0.491	98.93%
q11	20.66	20.27	-0.384	98.14%
q12	25.37	26.06	0.691	102.72%
q13	47.56	47.23	-0.328	99.31%
q14	14.79	13.83	-0.960	93.51%
q15	28.90	29.53	0.630	102.18%
q16	15.62	15.40	-0.219	98.60%
q17	101.56	102.38	0.818	100.81%
q18	149.19	150.59	1.395	100.93%
q19	14.56	13.04	-1.515	89.59%
q20	28.62	27.68	-0.943	96.71%
q21	226.08	223.37	-2.707	98.80%
q22	14.53	14.21	-0.314	97.84%
total	1241.22	1236.20	-5.018	99.60%