KAFKA-3539: KafkaProducer.send() should not block

[evis]

Just wrapped current doSend() method invocation into another Future to get rid of blocking while calling KafkaProducer#send(). I know, that a lot of tests will be failed (including one I added), just want to know, is it appropriate to do such thing? If it is, I will try to fix tests.

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Test FAILed (JDK 8 and Scala 2.12).

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Test FAILed (JDK 7 and Scala 2.11).

[ijuma]

Thanks for the PR. This change would potentially break a lot of existing users. It's worth starting a mailing list discussion to get input from a wider group. If people are in favour, then we'd need a KIP to be submitted.