feat(appset): add notLabels to applicationset pullrequest generator (#12300)

[mnacharov]

Begins work on #12300

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• Either (a) I've created an enhancement proposal and discussed it with the community, (b) this is a bug fix, or (c) this does not need to be in the release notes.
• The title of the PR states what changed and the related issues number (used for the release note).
• I've included "Closes [ISSUE #]" or "Fixes [ISSUE #]" in the description to automatically close the associated issue.
• I've updated both the CLI and UI to expose my feature, or I plan to submit a second PR with them.
• Does this PR require documentation updates?
• I've updated documentation as required by this PR.
• Optional. My organization is added to USERS.md.
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[crenshaw-dev]

@mnacharov do you have time to implement this as matchExpressions instead of notLabels?

[mnacharov]

I'll try to find time this week