fix(ecs): rename capacity adding methods

[rix0rrr]

This is consistent with the new naming for EKS.

BREAKING CHANGE: Rename 'addDefaultAutoScalingGroupCapacity' =>
'addCapacity', 'addAutoScalingGroupCapacity' => 'addAutoScalingGroup'.

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