docs: added long polling config info

[EuroLew]

Description

Added documentation for using new long polling config options implemented here
camunda/camunda#18432

When should this change go live?

• This is a bug fix, security concern, or something that needs urgent release support.
• This is already available but undocumented and should be released within a week.
• This on a specific schedule and the assignee will coordinate a release with the DevEx team. (apply hold label or convert to draft PR)
• This is part of a scheduled alpha or minor. (apply alpha or minor label)
• There is no urgency with this change and can be released at any time.

[github-actions]

👋 🤖 🤔 Hello! Did you make your changes in all the right places?

These files were changed only in docs/. You might want to duplicate these changes in versioned_docs/version-8.5/.

• docs/self-managed/zeebe-deployment/configuration/gateway.md

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