fix: npm 20+ install

[davidnixon]

Contributes to #1576

What did you do?

Possible fix for npm 20+ install issues.

Why did you do it?

• renamed prepare.js to devPreinstall.js to better account for how it is used. (Name inspired pnpm lifecycle script.)
• Do not throw error in devPreinstall.js. Instead, issue warning.
• Try catch operations in .storybook/postinstall.js & log successful completion
• Add "node" in front of "ibmtelemetry". This should not be needed since node_modules/.bin/ibmtelemetry includes "#!/usr/bin/env node". But experimentally, this is required at least by npm 20+

How have you tested it?

See "this fails" steps in #1576
carbon-vue-3.0.15-4a6cf.tgz

npm 10 with node 20+

nvm use 20 # - Now using node v20.13.1 (npm v10.5.2)
npm create vite@latest app-name -- --template vue
cd add-name
npm install
# Ensure that Vue app itself is running.
Run npm add ./carbon-vue-3.0.15-4a6cf.tgz

pnpm

nvm use 20 # - Now using node v20.13.1 (npm v10.5.2)
npm create vite@latest app-name-pnpm -- --template vue
cd add-name-pnpm
pnpm i
# Ensure that Vue app itself is running.
Run pnpm add ./carbon-vue-3.0.15-4a6cf.tgz

yarn

nvm use 20 # - Now using node v20.13.1 (npm v10.5.2)
npm create vite@latest app-name-yarn -- --template vue
cd add-name-yarn
yarn
# Ensure that Vue app itself is running.
Run yarn add ./carbon-vue-3.0.15-4a6cf.tgz

direct install npm 10 with node 20+ on macos & Ubuntu 22

nvm use 20 # - Now using node v20.13.1 (npm v10.5.2)
tar -xf carbon-vue-3.0.15-1c45c.tgz
cd package 
npm install --omit=dev

@carbon/vue@3.0.15 postinstall
npx ibmtelemetry --config=telemetry.yml || true

Log file: /var/folders/x7/_hxvmlq51p36m3h6x4zm6r6r0000gn/T/ibmtelemetry-20240609T151905131Z-405315.log

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[morpheux]

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