release-23.1: keyvisualizer: return error if delete query fails

[blathers-crl]

Backport 1/1 commits from #104286 on behalf of @zachlite.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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This commit returns the error produced from DeleteSamplesBeforeTime, if any. Before this change, an error would cause a panic, which is disruptive and unnecessary.

The caller of this function returns errors produced to the job system, which will back off, and try again later. For more details, see Resume.

resolves #103968
Epic: none
Release note (bug fix): The keyvisualizer job no longer panics
if an error is encountered while cleaning up stale samples. Instead,
if the job encounters an error, the job will try again later.

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Release justification: Low risk bug fix

[blathers-crl]

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[cockroach-teamcity]

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[j82w]

Please fill out the backport criteria on the github comments.

Reviewable status: complete! 0 of 0 LGTMs obtained (waiting on @maryliag and @zachlite)