release-24.1: colexec: fix evaluation of the IN expression with INT2 and INT4 types

[blathers-crl]

Backport 1/1 commits from #121904 on behalf of @yuzefovich.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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This commit fixes a possible incorrect result of evaluation of the IN expression where the left side is INT2 or INT4 type and the right side has integers outside of the range of the left side's type. We do so by upcasting the "filter" row to INT8. Note that we already do the appropriate upcast in the comparison function, so the incorrect results could only be produced due to the "filter row" no longer being sorted in case a value overflows.

Fixes: #102864.

Release note (bug fix): CockroachDB could previously incorrectly evaluate IN expressions that had INT2 or INT4 type on the left side and values outside of the range of the left side on the right side. The bug has been present since at least 21.1 and is now fixed.

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Release justification: bug fix.

[blathers-crl]

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