use repo package: references instead of copying code

[devoncarew]

• use repo package: references instead of copying code

This is re-landing #2956, but with updates to the cloud build file and the dart_services docker config, in order to allow pub get to work from within the dart_services docker container.

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[devoncarew]

Looks like this one did build cleanly.