Use Dask temporary file utility

[jrbourbeau]

This PR deprecates distributed.utils.tmpfile in favor of using the upstream dask.utils.tmpfile utility

Supersedes #4912

cc @ncclementi

• Closes Remove tmpfile utility context manager #4910
• Closes Remove tmpfile utility context manager #4912
• Tests added / passed
• Passes pre-commit run --all-files

[ncclementi]

It seems we have legit failings on Windows, we are getting a

PermissionError: [WinError 32]  The process cannot access the file because it is being used by another process ...

Tried to look into but couldn't figure out what is actually causing the problem.:(

[jrbourbeau]

It turns out the tmpfile utility in distributed caught an OSError in one more place than the tmpfile utility in dask did. I'm rerunning tests here against this branch https://github.com/jrbourbeau/dask/tree/tmpfile-oserror which updates the dask tmpfile utility to handle the extra OSError edge case. If this fixes tests here, then I'll push a PR up to dask proposing we modify tmpfile there

[jrbourbeau]

Alright, that seems to fix things. Here's the corresponding dask PR dask/dask#8191. We can revert the CI changes here and merge this PR after dask/dask#8191 has been merged.

[jrbourbeau]

Thanks for reviewing @ncclementi!