Avoid Make watching for changes to packages/*/node_modules

[kzar]

It turns out that including packages/privacy-grade/node_modules caused
builds to break on macOS when some temporary Puppeteer files were
included by mistake. Let's exclude node_modules for packages/.

Reviewer: @sammacbeth

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