refactor: replace custom go-concert atomic types with stdlib atomic

[kruskall]

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Similar to #39853 but replacing go-concert atomic types with upstream types

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[mergify]

This pull request does not have a backport label.
If this is a bug or security fix, could you label this PR @kruskall? 🙏.
For such, you'll need to label your PR with:

• The upcoming major version of the Elastic Stack
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To fixup this pull request, you need to add the backport labels for the needed
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• backport-v8./d.0 is the label to automatically backport to the 8./d branch. /d is the digit

[elasticmachine]

Pinging @elastic/elastic-agent-data-plane (Team:Elastic-Agent-Data-Plane)

[VihasMakwana]

Apart from CI failures, LGTM

[pierrehilbert]

Seems to be proxy server errors.
Let's see if this is okay this time.