fix(tls): issue when ssl listner is configured to use tls v1.3 only

[id]

Fixes https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-10192

Summary

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This pull request enhances the TLS support in emqx_tls_lib.erl by sorting and filtering the options based on the TLS version. It also adds unit tests for the new functionality in emqx_tls_lib_tests.erl.

PR Checklist

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• Added tests for the changes
• Changed lines covered in coverage report
• Change log has been added to changes/{ce,ee}/(feat|perf|fix)-<PR-id>.en.md files
• For internal contributor: there is a jira ticket to track this change
• If there should be document changes, a PR to emqx-docs.git is sent, or a jira ticket is created to follow up
• Schema changes are backward compatible

[zmstone]

update desc
e.g.
reuse_sessions.desc:
“”“Has no effect when TLS version is configured (or negotiated) to1.3""""

[zmstone]

maybe emqtt needs a check.

[id]

maybe emqtt needs a check.

@zmstone emqx/emqtt#205

[yanzhiemq]

Bug Fixes

• Fixed the issue when mqtt clients could not connect over TLS if the listener was configured to use TLS v1.3 only.

  The problem was that TLS connection was trying to use options incompatible with TLS v1.3.

[yanzhiemq]

修复

• 修复了一个问题，即当 MQTT 客户端尝试通过配置为仅使用 TLS v1.3 的监听器进行连接时，无法建立TLS连接。

  问题在于 TLS 连接尝试使用与 TLS v1.3 不兼容的选项。