feat: ensure data backends don't leak sensitive data

[lafirest]

Fixes EMQX-10479

Summary

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This pull request updates the dependency versions of several database clients to fix bugs, improve performance, and support new features. It also encrypts the password option for the mongodb worker using emqx_secret:wrap/1.

PR Checklist

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• Added tests for the changes
• Changed lines covered in coverage report
• Change log has been added to changes/{ce,ee}/(feat|perf|fix)-<PR-id>.en.md files
• For internal contributor: there is a jira ticket to track this change
• If there should be document changes, a PR to emqx-docs.git is sent, or a jira ticket is created to follow up
• Schema changes are backward compatible

Checklist for CI (.github/workflows) changes

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• Change log has been added to changes/ dir for user-facing artifacts update

[coveralls]

Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 5482388878

• 0 of 1 (0.0%) changed or added relevant line in 1 file are covered.
• 38 unchanged lines in 13 files lost coverage.
• Overall coverage decreased (-0.03%) to 82.014%

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Changes Missing Coverage	Covered Lines	Changed/Added Lines	%
apps/emqx_mongodb/src/emqx_mongodb.erl	0	1	0.0%

Files with Coverage Reduction	New Missed Lines	%
apps/emqx_bridge_sqlserver/src/emqx_bridge_sqlserver_connector.erl	1	80.56%
apps/emqx_gateway/src/emqx_gateway_schema.erl	1	94.44%
apps/emqx/src/emqx_broker.erl	1	88.33%
apps/emqx/src/emqx_limiter/src/emqx_limiter_schema.erl	1	81.48%
apps/emqx/src/emqx_router_helper.erl	1	87.04%
apps/emqx/src/emqx_session.erl	1	87.65%
apps/emqx/src/emqx_banned.erl	3	89.55%
apps/emqx/src/emqx_channel.erl	3	87.41%
apps/emqx_oracle/src/emqx_oracle.erl	4	80.0%
apps/emqx_resource/src/emqx_resource_buffer_worker.erl	4	93.26%

Totals
Change from base Build 5481866954:	-0.03%
Covered Lines:	30793
Relevant Lines:	37546

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