Update rocksdb

[thalesmg]

Fixes https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-10519

Summary

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This pull request updates the emqx-builder image tag to 5.1-3 in various files and workflows that are involved in building, testing, and releasing the emqx project. This ensures consistency and compatibility across the different stages of the development process. It also updates the tags for the ekka and rocksdb dependencies to use the latest versions that support the new features and fixes in the emqx project.

PR Checklist

Please convert it to a draft if any of the following conditions are not met. Reviewers may skip over until all the items are checked:

• Added tests for the changes
• Changed lines covered in coverage report
• Change log has been added to changes/(ce|ee)/(feat|perf|fix)-<PR-id>.en.md files
• For internal contributor: there is a jira ticket to track this change
• If there should be document changes, a PR to emqx-docs.git is sent, or a jira ticket is created to follow up
• Schema changes are backward compatible

Checklist for CI (.github/workflows) changes

• If changed package build workflow, pass this action (manual trigger)
• Change log has been added to changes/ dir for user-facing artifacts update

[thalesmg]

-> #11292