feat(expo): drop dev container side effect

[EvanBacon]

Why

• https://exponent-internal.slack.com/archives/C1QP38NQ5/p1662327210416919
• Looks like the only difference is that collapsible would now be set on the wrapper holding the dev loading view, and this would only happen when the inspector is open: ref react-native
• blocked on split from feat(expo): drop console.warn and console.error wrappers #18983

How

• Move DevLoadingView into withDevTools (formerly withExpo).
• Add displayName for withDevTools that follows React/React Native convention for wrapper views.
• Drop various platform-specific files and consolidate wrapper view.

Test Plan

• TBD

Checklist

• Documentation is up to date to reflect these changes (eg: https://docs.expo.dev and README.md).
• Conforms with the Documentation Writing Style Guide
• This diff will work correctly for expo prebuild & EAS Build (eg: updated a module plugin).

[ide]

Make sure to test that initialProps are passed in since this code passes them into only the Wrapper component: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/blob/12e5842e11ecd53755f43e99c592135b58ac694b/Libraries/ReactNative/AppContainer.js#L117