When video_player was federated, the existing unit tests in the
app-facing package--which were based on mocking out the method
channel--were left as-is. Because of the use of Pigeon, and thus
Pigeon-generated mocks, this creates a dependency from the test code in
the app-facing package on test code that is published from the platform
interface package, which causes unwanted dependencies in the platform
interface.

This updates the tests in the app-facing package to follow best
practices for federated plugins, which is for the app-facing tests to
directly mock/fake the platform interface, not depend on the
method-channel-based implementation. This simplifies the tests, ensures
that they aren't also testing code from another package, and allows for
removing the test code from the public interface of the platform
interface package (in a seperate follow-up PR).

In order to allow the tests to work, the controller's caching of the
platform instance is changed to allow it to notice changes.

Part of flutter/flutter#83562