**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Allow topologySpreadConstraints for read, write, backend and gateway
statefulsets/deployments.

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes**:
Fixes #11081 

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Co-authored-by: Michel Hollands <42814411+MichelHollands@users.noreply.github.com>