[MAINTENANCE] Misc updates to Datasource CRUD on DataContext to ensure consistent behavior

[cdkini]

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• delete_datasource should only persist changes on the DataContext and must be opt-in on the BaseDataContext
• update_datasource should always update the config and cache (but only conditionally persist changes based on the save mechanism as stated above).

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