feat(session): add timeout for redis connection

[tessig]

The redis store is waiting internally on a ping response on creation. This feature adds a controllable timeout for it.

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Package	Line Rate	Health
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/auth	13%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/auth/fake	50%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/auth/http	40%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/auth/oauth	47%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/cache	52%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/gotemplate	87%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/healthcheck/interfaces/controllers	76%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/healthcheck	64%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/internalauth/application	100%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/internalauth	100%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/locale/application	87%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/locale/domain	75%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/locale/interfaces/controllers	100%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/locale/interfaces/templatefunctions	92%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/locale	59%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/oauth/application	4%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/oauth/domain	62%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/oauth	55%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/requestlogger	100%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/requesttask	10%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/robotstxt	50%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/runtime	77%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/security/application/role	95%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/security/application	98%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/security/application/voter	100%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/security/interface/controller	100%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/security/interface/middleware	72%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/security	59%	➖
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/core/zap	43%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/cmd	12%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/config	49%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/flamingo	34%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework	29%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/opencensus	88%	✔
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/prefixrouter	43%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/systemendpoint	27%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/testutil	0%	❌
flamingo.me/flamingo/v3/framework/web	49%	❌
Summary	49% (3257 / 6621)	❌