fix(datetime): don't update value on confirm call if no date was selected

[amandaejohnston]

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What is the current behavior?

If you have an ion-datetime with no default value (causing its value to init to undefined), and then call confirm on it without first selecting a date, the value will be updated to today. Because we updated the behavior such that no day is visually pre-selected until you pick one, this no longer makes sense.

Screencast: https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/90629384/169901184-eeb228f1-766b-4ce7-a818-f5d087d094ba.mp4

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What is the new behavior?

The value is not updated on confirm call unless a day is selected first.

Does this introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

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