Cherrypick 1.24: use subnets of ensured NLBs when update worker node SG rules

[oliviassss]

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see #763
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[cartermckinnon]

/lgtm
/approve

[cartermckinnon]

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@oliviassss We need a release note on these

[cartermckinnon]

/hold

for release note

[cartermckinnon]

Eh, we don't hate a note for the other branches, and we're not doing anything with the notes at this point anyway. Shipping this to get it into the next batch of releases.

/lgtm
/approve
/hold cancel

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