kindnet CNI fails to connect pods to services on different nodes

[andriyDev]

Reproduction:

minikube -p coredns start --nodes=2
minikube kubectl -p coredns -- apply -f test/integration/testdata/multinodes/multinode-pod-dns-test.yaml
minikube kubectl -p coredns -- get pods --all-namespaces -o wide
BB_WITH_CD="<copy busybox name on same node as coredns pod>"
BB_NO_CD="<copy busybox name on diff node as coredns pod>"

# Succeeds
minikube kubectl -p coredns -- exec $BB_WITH_CD -- nslookup kubernetes.io
# Fails
minikube kubectl -p coredns -- exec $BB_NO_CD -- nslookup kubernetes.io

Related to #12208.

Upstream issue: kubernetes-sigs/kind#2415

Specifying --cni=calico fixes this issue as far as I can tell, haven't tested other CNIs

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