Feat: add three way merge patch

Signed-off-by: FogDong <dongtianxin.tx@alibaba-inc.com>

go.mod

@@ -3,7 +3,9 @@ module github.com/kubevela/pkg
 go 1.17
 
 require (
+	github.com/crossplane/crossplane-runtime v0.17.0
 	github.com/go-stack/stack v1.8.1
+	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.5.8
 	github.com/oam-dev/cluster-gateway v1.4.0
 	github.com/onsi/ginkgo/v2 v2.1.6
 	github.com/onsi/gomega v1.20.2
@@ -42,7 +44,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf v1.3.2 // indirect
 	github.com/golang/groupcache v0.0.0-20210331224755-41bb18bfe9da // indirect
 	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.2 // indirect
-	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.5.8 // indirect
 	github.com/google/gofuzz v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/google/uuid v1.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/googleapis/gnostic v0.5.5 // indirect
@@ -79,7 +80,7 @@ require (
 	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/sdk/metric v0.20.0 // indirect
 	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/trace v0.20.0 // indirect
 	go.opentelemetry.io/proto/otlp v0.7.0 // indirect
-	go.uber.org/atomic v1.7.0 // indirect
+	go.uber.org/atomic v1.9.0 // indirect
 	go.uber.org/multierr v1.6.0 // indirect
 	go.uber.org/zap v1.19.1 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/net v0.0.0-20220722155237-a158d28d115b // indirect