Cherry pick the default metrics patches to LI beam from Beam Open Source

[Sanil15]

commit 6373bf4 (HEAD -> cherry-pick-metrics, Sanil15/cherry-pick-metrics)
Author: Sanil15 snjain@linkedin.com
Date: Mon May 22 10:37:37 2023 -0700

Fix the gRPC version library conflict with beam oss

commit 6902820
Author: Sanil Jain snjain@linkedin.com
Date: Thu May 18 17:00:59 2023 -0700

Basic Opeartor Metric Support For Data Shuffle (GBK and Combine Per Key) Operators for Samza Runner (#26649)

commit 272cb62
Author: Sanil Jain snjain@linkedin.com
Date: Tue May 9 10:14:57 2023 -0700

#26456 : Basic Transform metric like throughput, watermark progress & latency support for non data shuffle transforms for Samza Runner (#26437)

commit 3db7060
Author: Sanil Jain snjain@linkedin.com
Date: Thu Apr 20 18:20:51 2023 -0700

Populate TransformIOMap as Config for Beam Samza Runner (#26276)

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[Sanil15]

R: @mynameborat @dxichen quick cherry pick patch, please do not squash and merge as cherry pick is 4 commits