chore: upgrade to SPFx v1.18 and node18

[gavinbarron]

Closes #2715

PR Type

• Other... Please describe: Dependencies update and move automation onto node 18

Description of the changes

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• License header has been added to all new source files (yarn setLicense)
• Contains NO breaking changes

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