enhance: add max insert request size and must use partition key configs

[SimFG]

issue: #30577
/kind improvement

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/run-cpu-e2e

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 95.55556% with 2 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 81.76%. Comparing base (66fae53) to head (49571a0).
Report is 7 commits behind head on master.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   81.76%   81.76%   -0.01%     
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  Files         999      999              
  Lines      124008   124045      +37     
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+ Hits       101400   101425      +25     
- Misses      18739    18747       +8     
- Partials     3869     3873       +4     

Files	Coverage Δ
internal/proxy/impl.go	86.49% <100.00%> (+<0.01%)	⬆️
internal/proxy/task.go	88.00% <100.00%> (+0.03%)	⬆️
internal/proxy/task_insert.go	76.21% <100.00%> (+0.74%)	⬆️
internal/proxy/task_query.go	81.66% <100.00%> (+0.13%)	⬆️
internal/proxy/task_search.go	78.30% <100.00%> (+0.10%)	⬆️
pkg/util/merr/errors.go	86.95% <ø> (ø)
pkg/util/paramtable/component_param.go	98.42% <100.00%> (+<0.01%)	⬆️
pkg/util/paramtable/quota_param.go	73.94% <100.00%> (+0.15%)	⬆️
pkg/util/merr/utils.go	89.14% <60.00%> (-0.25%)	⬇️

... and 27 files with indirect coverage changes

[xiaofan-luan]

/lgtm
/approve

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