enhance: implement wal managerment on streaming node

[chyezh]

issue: #33285

• add lifetime control for wal.
• implement distributed-safe wal manager on streaming node.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 87.27273% with 35 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 84.30%. Comparing base (7611128) to head (fcfdc6b).
Report is 4 commits behind head on master.

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Files	Coverage Δ
...ernal/streamingnode/server/walmanager/wal_state.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
.../streamingnode/server/walmanager/wal_state_pair.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
pkg/streaming/walimpls/impls/rmq/builder.go	35.71% <ø> (ø)
...streamingnode/server/wal/utility/reorder_buffer.go	87.50% <60.00%> (-12.50%)	⬇️
...treamingnode/server/wal/adaptor/scanner_adaptor.go	85.00% <25.00%> (-9.45%)	⬇️
...al/streamingnode/server/walmanager/wal_lifetime.go	89.55% <89.55%> (ø)
...al/streamingnode/server/walmanager/manager_impl.go	87.14% <87.14%> (ø)
internal/util/streamingutil/util/wal_selector.go	60.71% <60.71%> (ø)

... and 309 files with indirect coverage changes

[jaime0815]

Suggest using one background task to process life time of all WALs that is goruntines effective

[jaime0815]

The following code snippet can move into renew function

[jaime0815]

fix unresolved issues in the next PR.

[jaime0815]

/lgtm