fix: site-replication will reset group status when add user

[jiuker]

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Description

• Add test case first.
• commit the change.

Motivation and Context

fix #19584

How to test this PR?

see https://github.com/minio/minio/actions/runs/8812823264/job/24189257383?pr=19594
now is https://github.com/minio/minio/actions/runs/8812961663/job/24189686523?pr=19594

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Optimization (provides speedup with no functional changes)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

Checklist:

• Fixes a regression (If yes, please add commit-id or PR # here)
• Unit tests added/updated
• Internal documentation updated
• Create a documentation update request here

[shtripat]

LGTM. Verified.