chore: update v5 config (use jsii 5.4 to build package) (backport #1252)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #1252 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

[mergify]

Cherry-pick of 9bda400 has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/v4/pr-1252
Your branch is up to date with 'origin/v4'.

You are currently cherry-picking commit 9bda400.
  (fix conflicts and run "git cherry-pick --continue")
  (use "git cherry-pick --skip" to skip this patch)
  (use "git cherry-pick --abort" to cancel the cherry-pick operation)

Changes to be committed:
	modified:   .projenrc.ts

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add <file>..." to mark resolution)
	both modified:   .projen/deps.json
	both modified:   package-lock.json
	both modified:   package.json

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