Add support for time-sensitive messages

[c16a]

Signed-off-by: Chaitanya Munukutla chaitanya.m61292@gmail.com

• Resolves Time-sensitive messages #2731 and support deferred message #2541
• Documentation added (if applicable)
• Tests added
• Branch rebased on top of current main (git pull --rebase origin main)
• Changes squashed to a single commit (described here)
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Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Support for expiring messages
• Support to defer message delivery

/cc @nats-io/core

[bruth]

@c16a Closing as stale, feel free to re-open if you want to justify the use case. Two notes:

• Expiring messages (fixed TTL for messages in a stream) is already supported, and per-message TTLs are currently not in scope.
• Delivery is a consumer-specific thing, not at the stream level, so the semantics of what you mean by deferring would need to be explained.