fix(vite): remove @vue/ scoped libraries from resolutions

[danielroe]

🔗 Linked issue

reverts #20829
#14146 (comment)

❓ Type of change

• 📖 Documentation (updates to the documentation, readme or JSdoc annotations)
• 🐞 Bug fix (a non-breaking change that fixes an issue)
• 👌 Enhancement (improving an existing functionality like performance)
• ✨ New feature (a non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• 🧹 Chore (updates to the build process or auxiliary tools and libraries)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

📚 Description

Technically any packages in optimizeDeps.include and dedupe need to be resolvable from the dependencies of the root package.json. So the current setup is incompatible with disabling shamefully-hoist. By removing these packages, we make it possible not to have to to install all the @vue scoped libraries.

In addition, this PR also adds nitro dependencies to the external array so that nitro can better handle resolving them as part of its build process (possibly deduping them with them being used in server routes).

When unjs/nitro#1388 is merged, we can then move the transpile call from vite/webpack server builds directly into nitro options.

📝 Checklist

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• I have updated the documentation accordingly.

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