perf(nuxt,schema): do not watch buildDir and node_modules

[danielroe]

🔗 Linked issue

unjs/nitro#1458, #20213

❓ Type of change

• 📖 Documentation (updates to the documentation or readme)
• 🐞 Bug fix (a non-breaking change that fixes an issue)
• 👌 Enhancement (improving an existing functionality like performance)
• ✨ New feature (a non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• 🧹 Chore (updates to the build process or auxiliary tools and libraries)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

📚 Description

This follows up some earlier fixes to the watching implementation for Nuxt, which will particularly affect Linux and Windows machines. There are two issues fixed here as well as a third potential issue:

1. we were adding .nuxt and .nuxt/analyze in their absolute form which were ignored, meaning we were watching the build directory 😱
2. we were not ignoring node_modules within layers, only at the top level 😱
3. we have also added additional output directories like .vercel, .netlify and dist, as well as excluding .output, .git and .cache even when these are within subdirectories. (There has been no explicit report that this fixes, but I think it should be safe and improve performance.)

📝 Checklist

• I have linked an issue or discussion.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.

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