feat(sdk-node)!: remove long deprecated methods in favor of constructor options

[pichlermarc]

Which problem is this PR solving?

This simplifies the API and internal logic for NodeSDK. Removes deprecated methods in favor of constructor options.

Breaking changes:

• removed NodeSDK.configureTracerProvider(), please use constructor options instead
• removed NodeSDK.configureMeterProvider(), please use constructor options instead
• removed NodeSDK.configureLoggerProvider(), please use constructor options instead
• removed NodeSDK.addResource(), please use constructor options instead
• removed NodeSDK.detectResources(), this is not necessary anymore, resources are now auto-detected on NodeSDK.start() if the constructor option autoDetectResources is unset, undefined or true.

Follows up on #3996

Type of change

• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)

How Has This Been Tested?

• Existing tests

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #4609 (15937bd) into main (c046867) will increase coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

Additional details and impacted files

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...imental/packages/opentelemetry-sdk-node/src/sdk.ts	96.03% <100.00%> (+3.61%)	⬆️