videoio(dshow) fix incompatible media type left set on video device

[kstuedem]

setSizeAndSubtype didn't reset VD->pAmMediaType to the original value when SetFormat fails even though the value is used in multiple places afterwards.

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[asmorkalov]

Thanks for the nice catch! This patch should go into 3.4 branch first. We will merge changes from 3.4 into master regularly (weekly/bi-weekly).

So, please:

• change "base" branch of this PR: master => 3.4 (use "Edit" button near PR title)
• rebase your commits from master onto 3.4 branch. For example:
  git rebase -i --onto upstream/3.4 upstream/master
  (check list of your commits, save and quit (Esc + "wq" + Enter)
  where upstream is configured by following this GitHub guide and fetched (git fetch upstream).
• push rebased commits into source branch of your fork (with --force option)

Note: no need to re-open PR, apply changes "inplace".

[alalek]

Thank you 👍