ddl, statistics: fix stats meta missing when creating many tables at once (#38301)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #38301

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #38189 close #36004

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

If the stats meta is not inserted after creating the table, we insert it in DumpStatsDeltaToKV(use INSERT INTO ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE ...).

Check List

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[wuhuizuo]

/hold high priority for trunk branch

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• 2023-12-11 07:51:40.183547 +0000 UTC m=+256191.220773927: ☑️ agreed by qw4990.
• 2023-12-11 08:21:46.305079642 +0000 UTC m=+257997.342306760: ☑️ agreed by time-and-fate.

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