executor: add lock time in total time of insert execution info

[jackysp]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #52174

Problem Summary:
For no delayed DML execution (insert/update/delete), the query locks keys after execution, which make the lock duration be excluded in the total execution time. But for select for update statement, it is included.

What changed and how does it work?

Add the lock duration to execution info for pessimistic DMLs.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

1. start a cluster
2. make an insert statement wait lock for a long time, like Lock RPC time does not include in execution info and slow query log #52174 shows.
3. decode the insert plan in the slow log file

• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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Codecov Report

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Timeline:

• 2024-03-28 12:47:21.105838177 +0000 UTC m=+2158468.128084550: ☑️ agreed by zyguan.
• 2024-03-29 07:49:21.014679817 +0000 UTC m=+2226988.036926200: ☑️ agreed by you06.

[jackysp]

/retest

[jackysp]

/retest