gc (ticdc): optimize the algorithm calculating gc safepoint (#8464)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #8464

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #8403

What is changed and how it works?

gc (ticdc): Instead of keeping restarting error changefeed in 24 hours, put the error changefeed into failed state and calculate the ticdc global gc safepoint based on checkpoint ts of all changefeeds and give users 24 hours grace period to handle the failed changefeed.

e.g.,

Have two ChangeFeeds,
cf1(failed) with checkpointTs ts1
cf2(normal) with checkpointTs ts2

the global gc safepoint will be:
min(ts2, max(ts1, currentPDTs - 24 hours))

After this pr being merged:

• Following errors will be set to fail directly:

ErrExpressionColumnNotFound,
ErrExpressionParseFailed,
ErrSchemaSnapshotNotFound,
ErrSyncRenameTableFailed,
ErrChangefeedUnretryable,
ErrGCTTLExceeded, 
ErrSnapshotLostByGC,
ErrStartTsBeforeGC,

• all other errors will be retried no more than 90 mins
• when cal the gcsafepoint, changefeed has been failed for more than 24 hours will be ignored

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Questions

No

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

No

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

No

Release note

- only retry error changefeed for no more than 90 mins
- cleanup data of changefeed that has been failed for more than 24 hours

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[hi-rustin]

/merge

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This pull request has been accepted and is ready to merge.

Commit hash: 86544a3